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July 20, 2011 - 10:24 Originally I kept shaming myself for it, feeling like I was cheating on my life partner, but then I was like...wait, why am I comparing the cats to romantic mates? It's actually much more like when a mother has a new baby, and the feelings are so intense that the older children fade a bit into the background. I definitely sensed that from my mother after Noah was born, and it doesn't have to be a bad thing. I imagine that this emotional intensity for Wee Bay will level out, and my relationship with Lee-Bee will be comparable to that of a mother to a teenager, nearing peerdom. Separate, but Equal.
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